Let them know you support their social obligations. Libra wants to attend six back-to-back happy hours? No problem, you’re down for it! As soon as they know you’re along for the ride, they’ll be sure to stick around. Their new hairstyle? Gorgeous. Their shoes? The most stylish you’ve ever seen. Their glasses? You wish your eyesight was terrible so you could wear the same style. In fact, you might even get some nonprescription ones so you can look as cool as they do.
This makes them notorious flakes, because they struggle to know if they really *want* a relationship to begin with or how to sort out their feelings for you
Scorpios have a bit of a reputation as being, well, a lot. They might show up to your date having found your high school Myspace on the Wayback Machine or followed the maze of your Instagram tags to find out that yes, you met your ex’s parents, but no, you didn’t live together. While not all astrological stereotypes are true, Scorps are intense and people need to be careful with them. Once they form an emotional connection, it’s not easy for them to let go. They protect their heart at all costs, which makes them an expert ghoster. And they hold a grudge unlike any other sign, so if you f*ck up, don’t expect to get a second chance.
Don’t act surprised if your Scorpio lets a little fact slip that they could have only learned from something you tweeted back in 2017. If it’s out there, expect your Scorpio to know it-and don’t try to keep secrets from them. If they do ghost you, it isn’t easy to change a Scorpio’s mind, but they are excellent at hauntings because they have a hard time letting go. They will absolutely watch your Insta Stories long after you called it quits.
Symbolized by the celestial archer, Sagittarius is all about exploration, adventure, and discovery. What other people perceive as “ghosting” is simply their default spirit. They’re *all* about dipping, so people really shouldn’t take their vanishing acts personally. The archer is famously noncommittal-they’ll commit to the right person, but they have to be sure.
Embrace their roaming tendencies. They’ll feel confident in building a strong future together if you play the role of a copilot who’s always down for anything. And BTW, don’t think that you’re an official couple if you haven’t had a real-life convo about it. Sure, it’s been seven months, but if you haven’t DTR’d, your Sag might think it’s just casual, while you’re secretly planning your couples tattoos.
Capricorns are often painted as unemotional workaholics, and that’s not entirely true. They definitely know how to let loose and have fun, but when it comes to dating, the end needs to justify the means. They just don’t want to invest in a relationship that has no future, so if anything feels annoying or imperfect off the bat, they’re quick to lose interest. Caps often have an extremely detailed five-year plan, and if your goals don’t match theirs-or worse, you don’t have any defined goals-they’ll dip.
They care deeply about equality but have a difficult time applying these values to their interpersonal relationships
Be very clear with what you want early on so your Capricorn can determine whether the relationship is feasible on their end. This earth sign really appreciates honesty, so when in doubt, always lead with the truth. And once you’re in with a Capricorn, don’t slack-these sea-goats appreciate hard work and planning, so you better have an itinerary and a budget for that weekend trip you’re suggesting.
Passionately humanitarian and highly intellectual, Aquarians are revolutionaries. Aquarians are sometimes called robots because they can be so dispassionate-yes, they have feelings, but if they think they have a good reason for hurting yours, they won’t think twice about it. And BTW, they’re also called the “weirdos” of the zodiac-and you don’t have to share their obsession with Area 51 conspiracy theories, but if you make fun of it, they’ll cut you loose.