That reality makes the type of man a woman selects for her husband very different than sugar daddy nc the men with whom she had fun when she was single. I did not marry until the second half of my thirties. Let’s say that I more than sowed my wild oats. I saw the wild side of women first-hand, which is why I could not reconcile what happened when I finally settled down after a full-court press by my parents. The reality is that there is nothing in modern marriage for men. My ex-wife was not a stay-home-mom. She was a career woman whose career I supported. In fact, she was all over me up until the time our children arrived, and boom, the primary relationship switched from being between us to being between her and our children (the number one mistake that women make in their marriages that leads to male infidelity).
Any man who finds himself in a relationship where he has to beg for sex should to focus less on increasing comfort and more on increasing arousal
It did not matter how much of the household chores I took on. Nothing could turn that freight train around. All it did was increase her comfort. I stand by my assertion that increasing comfort does not increase arousal. That is the big lie that is sold by the feminized marriage counseling industry. Taking on more chores just leads to a greater loss of respect, which leads to an even greater loss of arousal. If he cannot increase arousal, then it is time to leave. There is a difference between sex as reward for being more helpful and sex that is centered in arousal.
Often it takes getting divorced for a man who has been married for a long to time to realize the difference. Life is too short to spend it with a woman who does not desire you. I have been with my present girlfriend for three years. She notices how other peer-age and younger women look at me when we go out. She is an executive who earns more than enough money to support herself. She had many men who wanted her when she chose me, but she chose me because I am in her words, �tall, built, well-educated, and handsome. She did not use the typical comfort attribute fodder a man encounters on female profiles on dating sites such as, funny, kind, gentle, and family oriented.
Edward
When I was single young man I had plenty of partners than at 26 I married what I thought was my true sole mate, my love. Are sex life was the top of the world until she ate the wedding cake, what happened, I stained with her because I loved her but ,when we got to once a year , we went for help She told me to stay home and worked with her . As friends we could stay to get her but I really enjoy sex and like to think I give every thing to my partner. I just do not get it
My wife and I have been married for about 17 years now. We used to have sex all the time, of course, when we first got together. Over the last 5-6 years – not so much. Then when I do try to get her in the mood, I am responded with �I’m tired�, �I don’t feel good�, or whatever other excuse that she can think of. She masturbates alot, but tries to play it off as �scratching� from an ingrown hair. I masturbated last night while she was asleep, and I even tried getting her in the mood before we went to bed and right after we were in bed, only to be told I am tired and that was it. She rolled over and went to sleep. So I took care of it myself and when I told her this morning, the look that would have killed me, if possible was given.